Gonna try to answer this as neutral as I can but frankly speaking when they said “I do” they made a pact to respect each other’s wishes and to establish whatever boundaries they deem is necessary to keep both themselves and each other happy amongst other things. Although some outsiders might have different opinions on what’s right or wrong that doesn’t mean that it applies to what they consider is right or wrong. If the husband said they didn’t feel comfortable and the partner is respecting their partners feelings, not being forced to, it doesn’t give another person outside the right to say that they are in the wrong since its their relationship. Unless you think she’s being physical, mentally abused or manipulated which judging from the story is a no.
Gonna try to answer this as neutral as I can but frankly speaking when they said “I do” they made a pact to respect each other’s wishes and to establish whatever boundaries they deem is necessary to keep both themselves and each other happy amongst other things. Although some outsiders might have different opinions on what’s right or wrong that doesn’t mean that it applies to what they consider is right or wrong. If the husband said they didn’t feel comfortable and the partner is respecting their partners feelings, not being forced to, it doesn’t give another person outside the right to say that they are in the wrong since its their relationship. Unless you think she’s being physical, mentally abused or manipulated which judging from the story is a no.