• DillyDaily@lemmy.world
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      1 day ago

      That’s interesting to see that the words are considered pure synonyms by that reference source.

      I’ve always used Oxford or Cambridge for my definitions,

      Vindictive

      having or showing a wish to harm someone because you think that they harmed you; unwilling to forgive

      Vengeful

      expressing a strong wish to punish someone who has harmed you or your family or friends:

      Revengeful

      While both vindictive and vengeful are synonyms of revengeful, Cambridge notes that there are different tonal applications (vindictive is a disproving synonym)

      So I guess at the end of the day whether you think women are vindictive depends on your definition of vindictive. I can’t break away from the definition I’ve always known, that vindictive is revenge for a perceived injustice and is a disproving judgement. Therefore I don’t think women as a whole are vindictive because I don’t think the injustice is perceived, it’s real and tangible.