• commander@lemmings.world
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    2 days ago

    Unfortunately, there’s a lot of truth to this.

    It’s a societal and cultural problem where males bend over backwards to enable female’s delusions in order to get laid.

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      2 days ago

      Well that’s the most delusional thing I’ve heard in a while.

      Did you know that women’s brains develop faster? Different sources say different years, but it seems to lie between 1 to 5 years on average depending on what age you look at.

      Estrogens stimulate development of the frontal lobe. Executive functions, risk-assesment and empathy to name a few tasks it does. Which plays a role in why girls with a developmental disorder, are often able to compensate enough (masking) to keep up with their peers, or even be in the top of the class. Boys on the other hand are less lucky, and their grades are affected more clearly by the same disorders. ASD, AD(H)D, dyslexia/dyscalculi to name a few. Interestingly, hyperlexia is almost only seen in girls. While it is a developmental disorder, it often works in their favor in school settings. Estrogens appear to play a role in language development.

      Estrogens also improve memory and learning. It’s why women have a better memory than men on average, and why they are outperforming men academically on average. Yes, women will remember everything you said to them. For good and bad purposes.

      Estrogens also play a role in social development. Which is why girls often prefer playing with toys that have a face on it, and integrate social feedback more often. Part of the reason girls are held to higher standards, which results in girls working harder in school, and suffering more often from performance/achievement related stress.

      If anyone has a child’s brain at 30, it’s you mate.

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        2 days ago

        Sure bud.

        I never commented on their actual brain development, only how society treats them which is objectively true and has a real impact.

        It’s sad watching how desperate you are to avoid reality when you don’t like it, but I don’t expect more from you people at this point.

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          You didn’t read my comment, did you? I mentioned in my comment, that society holds girls and women to higher standards, and it’s effects on performance. Which is the opposite of pandering.

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            2 days ago

            that society holds girls and women to higher standards

            Uhh…

            Yeah, this is what I mean by bending over backwards to enable their delusions. The problem has gotten so bad we don’t even realize it’s there.

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                21 hours ago

                If you don’t want to believe something, you’ll find ways to never believe it.

                I’m not answering your question. I’m talking about you, specifically.

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                  14 hours ago

                  Except there is scientific evidence that women are held to higher standards. You’re the delusional one here.

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      This comment shouldn’t have been censored. It said “Unfortunately, there’s a lot of truth to this. It’s a societal and cultural problem where males bend over backwards to enable female’s delusions in order to get laid” which is completely true.

      Make sure you click the dropdown menu and “View comment moderation history” to see what they’re trying to censor from us.

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        Make sure you click the dropdown menu and “View comment moderation history” to see what they’re trying to censor from us.

        “They” is the same thing as “us” on Lemmy. Where do you think you are? If you don’t like the rules of a community or instance you can literally just make a new one.

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          No rules were being broken.

          I said uncomfortable truths you don’t like and you abused your power to censor them.

          You’re literally obscuring reality from the community, which is why most of them are living in lala-land.

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            Misogyny/sexism is a violation of Rule 1.

            Posting removed material is always grounds for removal. If you ever have questions or wish to dispute a moderation decision, please message a mod directly. As I mentioned, we are just members of the community who volunteer our time, so we certainly can and do make mistakes. Such issues are discussed by the moderation team when necessary and decided by consensus.

            All moderation decisions are public for review on the modlog. Be aware that direct messages on Lemmy are not private or encrypted.

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              It’s not being misogynist or sexist. I mentioned how other people treat women, which invariably has an effect.

              If you want it to stop being true, the answer isn’t to censor it. It’s to acknowledge it as a problem and then we can do something about it.