• Ilovethebomb@lemm.ee
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    14 days ago

    There’s a big problem with the “women message first” gimmick, and it’s that they just don’t.

    If they don’t simply let the match expire, you either get a shitty Gif, or something along the lines of “hey.”

    Maybe one in ten will actually send a message that genuinely starts a conversation.

    • Deceptichum@quokk.au
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      14 days ago

      I literally saw so many profiles being like “I don’t message first”, like do you even understand what the app you’ve signed up for is?

    • nutsack@lemmy.world
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      14 days ago

      it would work better if it was "women swipe first’. men can look at and swipe the women who swiped them already. this solves two problems:

      1. women are not seen by anyone they don’t want to be
      2. men don’t need to spend hours swiping hundreds of women

      please give me 1 million dollars